The idea of a “lolita” comes from the novel Lolita by Nabokov which is literally about a man who can’t get over the fact that he never got to properly be with his childhood sweetheart and thus proceeds to take advantage of a little 12 year old girl when he’s 37. If you’re romanticizing that idea in any way in your fan-fiction you’re disgusting. This is not kink shaming, this is common sense.
Could you imagine getting an apartment with the person you love. Falling asleep beside each other, and waking up to see that cute little dopey smile they make when they first get up. You’d never have a bad start to your day, because they’d be the perfect start.
Seriously, what the police are doing is not “bad”, it’s illegal.
There is a reason why people are raging mad at this situation, and it’s because it’s a blatant violation of basic human rights.
If you don’t understand that, then you are part of the problem.